If you are like me, as a Christian, I have tried to do the right thing. I have repented of my wrongdoings, motives, or thoughts. I have forgiven all who have hurt me in one way or another, but still I hurt. I feel like I am left crying while others go off skipping and dancing into their future.
Well, I found that I was missing something along the way. Although God has advised me to give my problems to Him, I didn’t realize that I needed to give my hurts to Him as well. So, for all the times I took it. For all the times I stuffed my pain, for all the times I did not retaliate, I needed to give those pains to God, all of them.
Mentally and spiritually, I loaded up all my garbage into big commercial black bags and flung it all up to Heaven to be disposed of by His garbage trucks. It made quite a difference for me. I felt lighter, at least after the tears subsided, I did. I felt physically better. A lot of my every day aches and pains were now gone. My mood became elevated. I had a general overall feeling of wellness.
So, my friend, I recommend that you do the same. Bring up the stuffed memories, tell God all about them. Don’t hold back, tell Him everything, and let Him handle them from there. Please, please, please try this and put it in the comments how it worked for you. and life is good when the Christ is in it. Blessings and Love. Shalom.